The other day, a woman was griping to her friend on her cell phone. She was really loud about it, so it was no one’s fault that they were listening. What she said was enough to make a person cringe- she said that if it was going to end up on the floor in a split second, then why bother wearing erotic lingerie at all? Mortified, I waited for the lady to finish her very loud and public conversation and then set her straight on a few key facts. Why bother wearing erotic lingerie? Why, indeed.
What I told the lady was simple. Think of erotic lingerie as the icing on the cake or the wrapping on the present. True, you don’t go to a party for just the icing or you don’t wake up early on Christmas morning just to admire the wrapping paper, but if those things were not there, you would miss them, right? Sure, you can serve a cake sans icing, but the little children will whine. You can put the packages under the tree without wrapping, but they won’t be nearly as much fun. Erotic lingerie can be the same thing with the same feelings.
Are you mad that your erotic lingerie ends up in the floor within ten minutes of putting them on? Of course you are not. It should simply say to you that it is doing its job! Erotic lingerie can be more than just stuff that you wear to entertain, after all, another fact that the lady must have been missing. Obviously to her the words “erotic lingerie” meant trashy items that were red or black or crotchless and more. You know, the stuff you see in the back of men’s magazines. She could not be farther off the mark. Erotic lingerie is so much more.
I told the lady that she could also wear erotic lingerie for her daily wear as well because nothing would make her feel better than having her sexy bras or panties on during the day, especially if she was going to see her special someone that night as well. It will give her that sense of anticipation that will carry her through the day, building in strength until it has its own heartbeat. A pounding, thudding, throbbing and excited heart beat.
Finally, I told the lady that erotic lingerie can be a great way for her and her honey to connect with one another whether they are shopping for it together or enjoying the liberating feeling that it gives to her . Why bother erotic lingerie? Oh, it’s no bother, believe me.
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